It’ll take several days to 2 weeks to get mom’s cremation and papers in order. Somehow I thought it would be faster. However, the dude at andreasons was very nice. Worth the money to have them take care of paperwork. Apparently some people have to run around town getting doctors to sign papers and shit. No thanks.

Dad is a genius. He’s completely delegated all the details of the memorial service. All he has to do is show up. He’s letting people do things for him. Thank god.

Had a lovely bougie glass of wine at 5th street tonight with Allisa. Very relaxing.

Much cooler today, thank Thor. Got a long walk and feeling more like myself.

Not much to report.

Mom died at 3 this morning. She was sleeping so that is a great relief.

We were out of there and eating breakfast at 900. Planning pays off, my friends. The funeral home came in 15 minutes. Would recommend Andreasons. Very professional.

Now I’m eating snacks.

Tomorrow I’ll think about my feelings. Tonight I’m watching Netflix.

Spent the whole day at elderhealth. It wasn’t good for the first part. She was in a lot of pain. I complained a lot and at about noon, somebody paid attention and gave Ativan early and that seemed to help. I was ready to bombard the nurses with “requests ” but things got better. When I left at 7 she was just sleeping away. That’s all I wanted

We will see what happens tomorrow